Thank You ……….

Most well-mannered people say Thank You.

However, I have to admit that I, almost, dislike intensely people who don’t say ‘Thank You’. I don’t know if they are half-asleep or just plain rude.
I’ve held a door open for someone and they just walk through as if it’s their right, without even a flick of the eyes in acknowledgement. Many a time I’ve given them a sarcastic ‘Thank You’ in passing but most often it doesn’t even register.

Then of course there are car drivers. You’ve pulled in to let them pass, or stopped to allow them into a stream of traffic, and you get nothing in return.

Surely it’s a common courtesy, just well-mannered, to say thank you?

But enough of my ranting, because I’m actually writing about those people who do say ‘Thank You’ – which in my experience is the majority of people.

‘Thank You’, ‘Thanks’, ‘Cheers’ are all nice to hear but often are ‘lost’ because it’s a semi-automatic response from a naturally polite person and you are expecting it.

Here’s a simple example – you give someone a tube of Smarties and they say thank you. Nothing wrong with that, it’s polite. The moment passes without much further thought.

But how much better would it be if instead the person said, ‘Thank you, I love Smarties’? How much better would you feel? You had got them a gift they really liked.

Think back over the last few times that someone has thanked you for something. I bet you remember, and feel better about, the times that you received more than a plain thank you.

In business, and your personal life, you will see a big improvement in your relationships if you thank people with more than just a bare ‘Thank You’.

And it’s so easy to do.

When a delivery is made, rather than saying ‘Thank you’, say ‘Thank you for delivery so quickly’ or ‘Thank you for stacking the boxes for me.’

If someone gives you a referral, try saying, ‘Thank you, that’s just the sort of work I love.’

As often as possible add something to your thank you. Imagine how you would feel if someone took the time to thank you specially. Well that’s exactly how they will feel.

It’s only a small thing but I promise it will make a massive difference to your relationships.

And thank you for taking the time to read this blog.

Author: David Wimblett

Business Mentor helping SMEs build their businesses by finding exactly the right customers that are perfect for them. Started my first business as a 21 year old. Live in Chilworth, Guildford, Surrey with my wife. We have four grown-up sons. Author of 'The 10 Year Breakfast' and 'BNI: One Bite at a Time'.

One thought on “Thank You ……….”

  1. Beautifully Written ⚘ I think in Culture today, most people are simply distracted by most things, or lack thereof…Parents (not all of course), are perhaps not taking the time to teach their children the basics of showing appreciation any more…to say Thank You to someone holding the door open for someone behind them. This seems to have become an entitlement it seems like, and when Thank You is said, and eye contact is made, it’s like a breath of fresh air..and completely unexpected to those that are actually doing the gesture…it’s sad that it’s this way, but it’s the truth…and I just shake my head, and move on. I continue to do what I was taught, and if I don’t get a simple Thank You in return , it’s on that individual. In my mind, that’s their character, that shows rudeness, and that confirms how to not be in Life, and how to not let the lack of sincerity of others damage your moment of Kindness. It’s so not worth the aggravation. Thank You ⚘

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